You know the times when you and your friends talk about approaching women and the number of women you scored? I bet you boasted about the 3 "regular" girls you talked to but not the 5 really hot girls who gave you the cold shoulder. You're not the only guy around who has had to let go of the beautiful but difficult "ice queens", and had to resort to the 'easier' ones because you can't close these high-and-mighty types of women.
I'm no mind reader but I can guess what went down. You used a routine on her that you saw your buddy pull off nicely. Only, she tells you she has seen it all before and is bored. So, what went wrong? My guess is that the other guy used his fun personality in approaching women, which made the routine seem "new" to a girl who claims to have seen and heard all the pick up lines in the world.
How to Add Your Personality to Any Pick Up – Two Strategies
1. Make it Fun for Her
Approaching women means entertaining them and letting yourself enjoy the whole thing. If you're ultra-serious about pick up, and you're secretly dreading that she can see through you... you could be right. Look, most girls love to have fun talking to guys, but they also love making fun of guys who take themselves too seriously. Lighten up and transform that a grim, tense look on your face into a smile when approaching women.
A girl lowers her resistance in the company of a guy who makes her laugh. In fact, she ends up anticipating the next round of fanfare, and then the next, without realizing that she's getting more and more into you. Show your fun side and let them poke fun at you, all the while collecting their numbers for more fun times later.
2. Be Enchanting
You can be enchanting without trying too hard. Learn some new tricks, and don't pass on any chance to show off your skills at entertaining people. You can wrap hot girls around your little finger if you can enthrall, fascinate and entertain with ease.
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